22-year-old lady narrates how married man with 7 wives got her pregnant with twins (Full Gist)

A 22-year-old lady has share a story of how she got pregnant for a married man with

seven wives.

According to the lady, she started dating the man when she was 19 years old (while

the man was 40 years old) after he allegedly lied and deceived her before she fell in

love with him during her industrial training, I.T.

After getting pregnant, she gave birth to a set of twins prematurely before one later

passed away after the man allegedly abandoned her while he was getting married to

another lady whom he impregnated.

The lady also accused the man of beating her four times as she said her parents are

forcing her to marry him due to what he gives their daughter.

Read the woman’s story as shared by human rights activist, Emeka Ugwuonye on

Facebook.

Lemme Starr from a brief introduction, am a Lady of 22yrs, a Yoruba, Muslim,’ studied chemistry

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I met this man when I was 19yrs, during my industrial training, the relationship I had then wasn’t

stable, but I started dating that man,he’s 40yrs as at then,and he’s a Christian, so he lied to me

that he had a late wife with 2 kids which are with his mother, so I innocently believed all his lies

totally without even a pinch of doubt,’ didn’t even run a background check on him,so I fell in love

with him with the belief that a mature man should know what he wants,and I even dropped all my

young,working class suitor as I don’t like double dating.

So even after the training, this man would come to my school to check on me all the way from

lag,so I felt so much in love with him, not until I got pregnant 5 months into our relationship, so

he started acting very strange,but I felt his act was because he wasn’t expecting the pregnancy

so soon,but he insist I abort it before he can be happy with me again,he even drove me to a

hospital to abort it but fate was on my side,after the scan it showed twin,and the doctor says to

leave it,that was when my life turned around,it was real hell,because my parents were divorced so

I had to stay at my mum’s place,he abandoned me totally,if my people call him he will shun them

off,it was really a painful situated to the extent that I developed high b.p coupled with low pcv,so

I was admitted when the pregnancy was 5 month,we needed money and donor for blood, but he

didn’t showed up,but I later found out that he was doing wedding with another lady he got

pregnant at that time,he was acting strange until I had premature birth at 7months,he still didn’t

showed up when they call him for money till one of the babies gave up to ghost,) later found out

that he was doing another wedding with another lady that he got pregnant again. But he has 7

wives in total and he did legal wedding for all of them differently, Although he started sending

money since the girl clock 1 and he rented an apartment for us.

But what is really paining is that my parent’s decision on this matter,they are trying to make him

my husband, and if I complain they talk about the peanut he gives the girl. They forget what we

all went through,and they are saying they don’t want me to have two husbands,when he’s not

even treating me right talkless of paying dowry. The worst is that he gives us money that can

never be enough for the girl and he goes around telling every body that he’s taking care of his

daughter, when I know that he bought cars for all his wife and put their kids in a very good

school.

I don’t even know where to pick up my life with this zero support, all the advice they give is to

know how to adjust with him

Did I forget to mention that this man has beat me like 4 times saying I sent him abuse message